https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YmbrAWDft0s&feature=youtu.be&t=12m46s Lundy Bancroft inside the minds of angry men
This is a very interesting you tube. It reveals some nuggets from multiple studies. On the spiritual side of things this travels in the family line . It is a root of bitterness and/or unforgiveness in the person or in the family line. There are alos other roots involved. These people need deliverance!!
At 50 minutes in a higher rate of woman abused come from families of abuse. This is a victimization spirit traveling in the family line or can come in with a open door such as trauma/sexual abuse etc See Lesson list on this blog … See the lesson on victimization and also see Bitterness and rejection.
Also scripture is very clear on child rearing http://www.openbible.info/topics/child_rearing
Proverbs 19;18 Discipline your son, for in that there is hope; do not be a willing party to his death.