UNLOVING SPIRIT BY HENRY WRIGHT

        TEACHING BY HENRY WRIGHT  www.beinhealth.com

 

If you look into the mirror and you don’t think you are the “fairest of them all,” you may have an Unloving spirit looking back at you!  An Unloving spirit attaches itself to you to make you feel rejected and cause you to reject yourself.  It makes you feel unclean, unworthy and like you don’t measure up.  It makes you feel that you are no good.  When you look in the mirror, you don’t like what you see.  When you hear your voice, you don’t like the way it sounds.  When people look at you, you think they hate you.  You can see it in their eyes.  So you spend all your time debating with yourself as to whether you belong on this planet or not.  You stand in front of the mirror and comb your hair this way and then that way.  You look at this wrinkle; you look at that sag.  You look at those eyes… the same old eyes that stare at you every morning in the mirror.  You spend your whole day in a world of “not measuring up.”  This person doesn’t like me.  That person doesn’t like me.  God does not like me.  I do not even like myself.  Why was I born?  You start replaying the same old unkind messages that were spoken to you in the past and they become your life.  The evidence that an Unloving spirit has come to make its abode with you is that you are constantly struggling with yourself.  That is its nature and it needs you as a medium of expression.  When you have an Unloving spirit it wants to go on stage.  You are the puppet and it is the hand that moves you.  You are like a puppet going through the motions by the hand of someone or something else that is making you say, do and think.  This is one of the greatest bondages known to mankind.

An Unloving spirit comes because you have been rejected, usually beginning in your own families.  When someone who is supposed to represent God to you treats you badly, it creates a breach that only God can heal.  Many times an Unloving spirit comes into you because you are a victim.  The people victimizing you will tell you it’s all your fault and they would not be victimizing you if you had not been bad in a certain way.  This happens in marriages, in families and in any relationship.  God intended the man to be in charge to represent Him as Father and to be to the wife, as Christ is to the church.  Any violation of that produces an Unloving spirit.

Hebrews 4:13  Neither is there any creature that is not manifest in his sight: but all things are naked and opened unto the eyes of him with whom we have to do.

You have to identify that part of you that is not of God and make it your enemy.  Identify those feelings you have when you cannot look someone in the eye, those feelings that cause you to withdraw in Fear, those feelings that come when someone says you are beautiful and you think, “No, I am not.”  Identify those feelings that are within you that constantly accuse you to your self.  Those feelings are your enemy because they are not from God and they are not even from you.  They are the voices and the presence of the Unloving, unclean spirit and every spirit that answers to them.  They have invaded your spirit and your soul and have become part of your nature.

In the above e-mail, please understand that the frequent use of the pronoun, you, is meant to penetrate the human heart for conviction, not for accusation

 

 

 

Romans 2:1  Therefore thou art inexcusable, O man, whosoever thou art that judgest: for wherein thou judgest another, thou condemnest thyself; for thou that judgest doest the same things.

This talks about pointing a finger at another.  “You, you, you…You are no good.  If it were not for you…you, you, you.”  When people are coming at you, accusing you in the victimization role that will allow the Unloving spirit of Rejection to come, they themselves have the same problem.  You become the outlet for their frustration and Bitterness.  The hatred they have for themselves and the unlovliness they have concerning themselves is vented on you, so they don’t have to deal with it themselves.  You become their own Self-hatred and Self- bitterness and unlovliness.   You take it into yourself and now you become an extension of it.

In order to gain freedom from the Unloving spirit, you must first deal with Bitterness, Envy and Jealousy, Rejection and self-rejection.  You must deal with Rejection by others and forgive those who rejected you.   You also have to forgive yourself and accept yourself.   Next to God, you ought to be your own best friend.  If you are not prepared to accept yourself, that is Fear.  It negates God’s faith for you.

Deuteronomy 32:10  He found him in a desert land, and in the waste howling wilderness; he led him about, he instructed him, he kept him as the apple of his eye.

God is saying, “From the foundation of the world, I knew you would be here.  I don’t care what someone said to you.  I don’t care who cursed you with their tongue.  You are mine.  You are loved.  I love you and you are accepted.  “You are the apple of my eye.”  You are the object of God’s love.  You are the apple of his eye.  He has called you out of the desert of life because He loved you.  In the Hebrew language, when it says you are the apple of His eye, it means the very focus of His attention is right on you.  It doesn’t make any difference what anyone has said.  When you are born again, that is over with.

Who you are in love can be complete, and you do not need to receive it from anyone.  If who you are is dependent on someone being nice to you, it won’t work.  You should be complete in yourself and in God and out of that strength you give unto others.

 

 

 

Iniquities are passed to the next generation when family members vent their “stuff” on you and you accept it.  If you decide that you are going to walk in the statutes of God, you can go free from the curse that is coming into you from your ancestry.  You do not have to die because of your ancestral sins.  You no longer have to live with the Unloving spirit that was in your family tree that has been transferred from generation to generation breaking down the family tree in rage and anger, verbal abuse, physical abuse, drivenness and separation from love.

In many cases, in your life, as a child, if you obeyed the law of your mother or father, whether it was righteous or unrighteous, they would love you.  But you needed to receive love whether you obeyed them or not.  Love has nothing to do with your disobedience; love is unconditional, constant, standard, moving straight ahead.

Matthew 22:37  Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind.

It does not say that you shall obey the Lord thy God.

John 14:15  If ye love me, keep my commandments.

It does not say if you obey my commandments, I’ll love you.  God is going to love you whether you obey His commandments or not.

In order to defeat the Unloving spirit you must leave the spiritual dynamics of your family if you are of the years of understanding because you have inherited things that are not of God.  If you are going to be a spiritual man or woman in your own right, you must get away from the things that are not of God.  You must make the separation spiritually.  No longer should you be the victim of your family iniquities that still want to become part of your thinking.  At the same time, you don’t abandon your family.  You must be diligent towards your family even when they are in sin.  So you pray for them and ask God to deal with them and then you live your life before God in purity.  You can be free and the issues between your mother and your father and your family do not have to be resolved but they must be resolved between you and God.

We also need to take time to teach our children.  Most of the time our children are oppressed by our own ungodly spirituality and our own hatred is extended to them.  They become an object of our own spiritual problems.

 

 

 

The Unloving spirit is an antichrist spirit sent to steal, kill and destroy …you!  An antichrist spirit rules over the Unloving spirit because it refuses to let you accept the love of God and love yourself and love your neighbor.  An antichrist spirit is any modality or spirituality or statement or existence or belief that changes any dimension of the Godhead and changes in any dimension what the Scriptures have said.

Luke 11:21-22  When a strong man armed keepeth his palace, his goods are in peace:   But when a stronger than he shall come upon him, and overcome him, he taketh from him all his armour wherein he trusted, and divideth his spoils.

The Unloving spirit uses armor to reinforce himself.  I want to help you identify some of the armor that causes the Unloving spirit to stay in your “palace” and I want to bring it to the light.  It cannot stand the light of the Word.  It cannot stand the truth because the truth exposes evil spirits.

“I” and “I will” are all part of the armor of an Unloving spirit.  An antichrist spirit will always protect itself, develop itself and look into itself.  A spirit that is not antichrist will look past itself and look at the overall picture around it.  Constantly thinking of yourself is an indication of an Unloving spirit.  Self Idolatry is present. The nature of Satan is that of self-exhalation.  The Unloving spirit will always exalt itself.

All spirits of Self-Bitterness come out of the unclean, Unloving spirit.  Self-hatred wants you destroyed.  It produces suicide.  It says, “I need to eliminate myself, I do not belong here.”  That is an antichrist mentality.  It is an antichrist thought coming out of the armor of an Unloving spirit.  You do belong here.  You have to accept the fact that you belong here.  When God saved you, He said you belong here.

Self-Pity produces another dimension of the Unloving spirit called the kingdom of Self…my realities, my perception, my disease, my pain, my theology, my decision about what is right or wrong.  The kingdom of Self begins with the kingdom of something called Self-introspection which causes inversion, looking inward.  When Jesus came and died for you, He had that moment when he said, “If it be possible, Father, take this cup from me.  Nevertheless, not my will but thy will be done.”  He looked outward as servant of all.  He did not get caught in Self-Pity.  He did not have an Unloving spirit.

 

 

 

The Unloving spirit and Fear are linked together side by side.   Both are antichrist.  An Unloving spirit is deeply rooted in Fear.  When you don’t like yourself, you are afraid of yourself and what others may think about you.  Fear projects possible failures in how you think and how you act and constantly attacks self.  Then there is Self-rejection that accuses you to yourself and says that you are a mistake.  Self-hatred and Self-rejection in the Unloving spirit produces one of the strongest evil principalities in mankind because we are hating and rejecting and refusing that which God made in His image and that which Jesus Christ died for.  We are special.  We are His beloved and we are eternal.

The need for approval is part of the armor.  Your approval is not from man.  If you are following the Word of God and you have a right spirit, then only God is your judge.

“Not necessary” is another part of the armor.  “I am not necessary.  I am not important.  I am not needed.” That is part of the Unloving profile.  “Life could go on without me and no one would notice that I am missing.”  Get a hold of the fact that you are incredibly important.  You are what makes God happy because you have been created for His pleasure.

1Corinthians 12:22-23  Nay, much more those members of the body, which seem to be more feeble, are necessary: And those members of the body, which we think to be less honourable, upon these we bestow more abundant honour; and our uncomely parts have more abundant comeliness.

Never discount yourself in any area of your life.  It’s time to take your place in the land of the living… in the body of Christ.  You are important!  God needs you because you are part of his corporate body in the earth but the Unloving spirit doesn’t want you to function in the body.  The Unloving spirit wants to separate you from yourself and others.  Part of the Unloving spirits’ armor is division.  An Unloving spirit won’t allow you to flow with other people.  It will divide and conquer.  It is not interested in unity; it is interested in division.

More of the armor of the Unloving spirit is unbelief and doubt, Self-Doubt and Self-Unbelief.  People who have an Unloving spirit cannot look into the pupil of another person’s eye for very long because they get nervous.  You must be able to look in another person’s eyes and force the Unloving spirit aside so you can get into a place of fellowship in spite of it.   To get rid of an Unloving spirit, you must be in fellowship with others.  Fellowship with God is the beginning

 

Proverbs 18:14   The spirit of a man will sustain his infirmity; but a wounded spirit who can bear?

The Unloving spirit produces the deepest, deepest breaking of the human spirit.  The Unloving spirit can produce pain both neurologically and spiritually.  In the Unloving spirit, one of the first things that happen to the endocrine system is a reduction in the secretion of serotonin.  When you have a decreased serotonin level, you do not like yourself, and as long as you do not like yourself, it will stay there.  The Unloving spirit triggers the underproduction of serotonin, and that feeling of unloveliness is reinforced.  Now, it is not just reinforced by a spirit projecting those thoughts into your consciousness or through your spirit.  It’s reinforced by a chemical imbalance that produces a physiological response as well as an emotional and spiritual one.  An antichrist spirit will always produce pain.  Pain comes with the breaking of the heart, the kingdom of Self.  When you start to concentrate on your spiritual and soulish and biological processes and you become so inverted that all you can see is yourself, then your body responds accordingly and you have a manifestation of self.

Self-Mutilation is a fruit of the Unloving spirit.  Piercing and scarring, bulimia and anorexia are rooted in Self-Mutilation.  When you have an Unloving spirit that has attached itself to you, it tells you that you are not the nicest thing God ever created.  If you listen to this long-term, that spirit becomes part of your life.

You must separate yourself from the antichrist spirit in you that is not really you.  Your issues must be confronted.  An Unloving spirit will keep you from being changed.  It will interfere with everything that God has for you.  Just as Bitterness will keep you from forgiveness of sin in your own life, an Unloving, unclean spirit will separate you from the love of God.  You need to be forgiven of your sins, so that you will not be separated from the love of God.  If you are separated from the love of God, you cannot possibly love yourself, and it’s impossible for you to receive or love your neighbor.  You cannot accept your neighbor if you do not accept yourself.  The spiritual dynamics are in place that will keep you from walking in the fulfillment and the freedom of that reality.

Love God first, love your self second and everything will fall into place.   These principles are from Scriptures and they will help you recover yourself from the snare of the devil, to bring you to a place of understanding, of discernment and to a place of focus.  The Bible says you are to work out your own salvation daily.  You have to grab hold of these principles.  You have to make up your mind that the Unloving spirit has to go.

Philippians 2:12  Wherefore, my beloved, as ye have always obeyed, not as in my presence only, but now much more in my absence, work out your own salvation with fear and trembling.

 

Paul says, “I find then a law that when I would do good, evil is present with me, for I delight in the law of God after the inward man.”

Romans 7:23  But I see another law in my members, warring against the law of my mind, and bringing me into captivity to the law of sin which is in my members.

Paul is saying that there are two laws working within him.  Law means precepts, concepts, the Word of God.  The Unloving spirit is banking on the fact that, with his armor, you will never be who you were created to be.  He is banking on the fact that something is screaming in your ears day and night about who you really are.   Will you believe the voices of Self-Pity, self-rejection, competition, self-pride, self-enthronement, false piety, “I” and “I will,” self-exaltation, attention getting, excessive talkativeness, insecurity, self-mutilation, excessive eating and bingeing, self-comparison, self-idolatry, perfectionism, self-torment, defending oneself, self-doubt, unbelief, self-bitterness, self-resentment, self-unforgiveness, self-retaliation, self-anger, self-hatred, self-violence and suicide?  When all of that is screaming in your head and you are listening to it, you are saying that the law of God is a lie.

You must come to a place of perfect peace in three dimensions.  The first dimension of peace you need is with the Father according to truth…..not feelings, not religion, not emotion, but truth.  You need peace in your doctrines of God, not what man has said.  Secondly, you need perfect peace in your relationship with yourself.  Unloving spirits in you keep you from peace with yourself.  Thirdly, you need perfect peace with others, regardless of their mentalities or spiritualities.

You have not been taught to love yourself, but you have been taught to hate yourself. If someone did not tell you that you were lovely and wanted, they may have abused you to the point that you finally believed it anyway. Once that happens, you are programmed to abuse as you have been abused. That is the rollover in incest and molestation.

It’s time to stop being tormented by the Unloving spirits that were in your ancestors and that are in you.  It’s time to stop being antichrist yourself and begin to tell the devil and his kingdom you are not going to listen to lies anymore.  Don’t listen to the voices of the past.  You don’t have to continue to hear the voices of those who hurt you. If you listen, it is an evil spirit that is tormenting you with self-rejection and self-hatred and that is the Unloving spirit.  You must fall out of agreement with them and prepare to walk away from them.  Become aggressive in reclaiming your life and tell the passivity of uncleanness and unloveliness and Rejection to leave and not come back.

 

 

All the evil things that were said or done to you in the past will scar you and make you feel unlovely but you must understand that in the new birth you became a new creature.  You are not a biological seed of your ancestry anymore.  If you keep hanging onto your biological ancestry you negate the sonship and daughtership of the living God.

2 Corinthians 5:17  Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new.

You are a new creature by faith.  You have to believe that and accept it.  When you became born again, your spirit came alive to God and you made God the Father your own “Abba, Father.”  You have to realize and say to yourself before God, “I am not expendable.  God saved me because I am important.  I am not going to listen to lies anymore.”

God said in Psalms 139:14 that you…you personally, are fearfully and wonderfully made.  Before you were ever conceived, God saw your parts and pieces as they were curiously wrought in the bowels of the earth, out of the dust of the earth.  He fashioned them in his mind and in his creative ability and the genetics of your ancestry from Adam and Eve and He saw you before you ever came, uniquely individual, uniquely separate…so separate that your name is written down in heaven.

You are the bride of Christ.  God loves you no matter what anyone else said or did to you.  If you cannot believe it and receive it, then you have an antichrist spirit because you are telling God He is a liar, and you are going to believe the lies of the devil before you believe the living God who has spoken to you from His Word.  Mix His Word with your faith.  Let God be true and every man a liar.

To be free of the Unloving spirit you are going to have to be so subjective in receiving the love of God your Father in Jesus Christ, that your perspective will be that if anyone smiles at you today, it is just a bonus.

If you are constantly struggling with yourself, it is time for you to be you. Tell that Unloving spirit that you don’t need it.  You can stand on the stage of life yourself.  It’s time for you to take back your identity.  If someone doesn’t like you, it just doesn’t matter.  God loves you and there is no one greater than Him.

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BKmdIdQg3Ks  The Father’s Love